1) Stop bottling things up. Tell people how you feel when they hurt you, stop bending backwards just to please everyone. When you bottle things up = you tend to blow up later on and hurt people. And the worst part, they didn't even know it was coming since you've been acting indifferent all along.

2) Stop being too honest. Some things are not meant to be said, because it hurts other's feelings and doesn't improve on the situation. Especially when you bottle things up and blow up later (back to pt 1)

3) Stop caring about what people think. If they have so much time to judge you and your actions when you haven't offended them in any way, it just shows how much time they have on their hands. And as the saying goes, don't point your fingers when your hands ain't clean? It applies well here since half of them are going nowhere in life/drunkards/hold horrible reputations/jerks. (Yes, this is a direct stab at you hypocritical, two-faced jerks )

4) Don't put up with people who treat you like shit. Friends, lovers, family.. whoever. Please take the exit because I'm sick and tired of being stepped on and being taken advantage of.

5) Don't speak when you're angry.

6) Stop being an emotional eater.

7) Learn to keep a balance between friends and family

8) Stop exiting into your dream world when things get hard and start focusing on reality

9) Let go of past mistakes, past hurt and pain, because it hurts you more when you hold on to it.

10) Listen more, speak less.

11) Increase your attention span, especially when it comes to your WORK.

12) Be more open to changes.

13) Stop being so overprotective of loved ones, some need to learn on their own.

14) What's meant to be, will happen in time. Don't fret over it, build on your own life and when it comes around, you'll be ready for it.

15) Stop taking light things so seriously, stop taking serious things so lightly

16) Stop procastinating

17) Start working towards goals more seriously. No halfways!

18) You can't tame fire with fire. Only love.

19) Stop giving people many chances when they never change to treat you right. Focus on the ones who love you.

20) Stop letting your pride get in the way of things.

21) Be yourself.

21 this year, so I shall action and  make 21 notes :P hehehe

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